the adjustment factor

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Personally, while driving from point A to point B, I can get into a full argument about which route is ‘THE’ route to take. Come on, tell me it is not just me……. This applies to a plethora of subjects. There is this ‘If I give in then the other person is correct which basically says that I am incorrect. This ‘I am right and you are wrong’ has become, I believe, a strong basis of human interactions. The odds are – and may the odds ever be in your favor 😉  – you are thinking, “I am definitely not like that.” You, me and everyone else thinks and says, “not me’, yet the world indeed is…..   Remember, our children are watching me, you and the world and learning that life is about whose side to take!

For anything to CHANGE it takes time and persistence. One has to be persistent asking oneself this question; “why am I so strongly bent on this matter?” Start with the small stuff, and stick with the small stuff. It is this sticknesstoit that will make it become clear that life is not Zeros and Ones on everything. It is NOT. It is more like 80-20 or 30-70 or whatever scale you think it is. The steps are;

Why am I so strongly bent on this matter?
Where on the scale am I and where do I need to be?
Adjust response and reaction
Next day + the adjustment Factor

Time goes by and our children have an X% better world

I know many laugh this off as too simple, but life is simple, God is simple and we are simple only if we allow ourselves to be.

I strongly believe that if me, you and the world ask questions and make adjustments, then we can find better ways to cooperate rather than bicker and strife. Therefore it is time to ask this question;

Did God intend to have so many divisions within His church/ Is God’s LOVE for man means to fight over what Jesus said or meant/ Is God looking at us delighted about our divisions or sad? Simple questions begging a simple answer, and that answer is; we have created the divisions and we can undo them and reunite. It is possible not impossible. Why? Because it is indeed God’s plan for us to be united in Him. ALL united in Him. Till next week 🙂

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